How to Give Feedback to Your Executive Assistant: Scripts That Build a Great EA
Quick answer: Give your executive assistant short, specific feedback every week. Use the SBI model: describe the Situation, the Behavior, and its Impact. Praise what you want repeated, correct one thing at a time, and ask how they want to be recognized. A 15-minute weekly coaching slot does more than any annual review. Ava’s EA kept sending meeting briefs that were too long. Ava skimmed them, felt annoyed, and said nothing for two months. When Ava finally raised it, the EA said, “I wish you had told me in week one.” (Ava is a composite of executives we work with.) Most EAs need more information about what you want. Feedback is how they get it. Why Does Feedback Matter So Much? Feedback drives engagement. Gallup found that 80% of employees who received meaningful feedback in the past week are fully engaged . Yet meaningful feedback is rare. In the same study of nearly 15,000 employees, only 16% said their last conversation with their manager was extremely meaningful. That gap mat...